Who
We Are
The Elixir Fund is inspired by Kevin McQuarrie and his
unique, life-affirming approach to cancer treatment. Even while
enduring two years of almost continual treatment, Kevin embraced
life and approached his therapies with an inspirational outlook.
Kevin, a massage
therapist, had seen clients and friends go through chemotherapy
and always thought it was something he would never want to do.
So when he was diagnosed with cancer, he thought about refusing
treatment. In the end, after friends and family rallied around
him, Kevin decided to try chemotherapy. Yet it still had a negative
connotation. To give it a more positive spin, Kevin decided to
call it his “Elixir.” He asked his family, friends,
doctors, and nurses to call it that as well, and gently corrected
them when they forgot. This was the beginning of a philosophy
that sustained him, and those around him, throughout his journey.
During
his hospital stays, Kevin surrounded himself with amenities that
not only made him more comfortable, but also allowed him to focus
on life beyond cancer. This included a DVD player, movies, CDs,
a special reclining chair, a personal blanket, and decorations
for the walls. He found these items relieved many of the physical
and mental stresses associated with treatment.

Kevin also
relied on the support of friends and family who not only provided
the amenities for the hospital, but also visited him, massaged
him, and boosted his spirits with humor. He felt strongly that
all of these things helped him to stay positive, avoid feeling
sick, and make the most of his life during and in between hospital
stays.
Throughout
all of his treatments, which included 6 rounds of chemotherapy,
stem cell, gamma knife, and almost four months of radiation, Kevin
led an active life and was rarely sick. He laughed often and lived
life to the fullest. Kevin did not view his treatment as a battle,
but rather he often referred to cancer as “the greatest
gift in really ugly wrapping.” Although Kevin passed away
in 2003, his family and friends do not view this as a loss, rather
we are grateful for the incredible memories of laughter, love,
and peace; his spirit is still very much with us.
Kevin
considered himself extremely lucky for all that he received. He
wanted to give something back by providing support and supplying
comfort items to other cancer patients. The Elixir Fund has been
created to do just that.
